The Little Things..

A lot of people think that to make a girl happy, one must shower her with the grandest of gifts, shower her with praises and sweep off her feet with flowers, chocolates, and teddy bears. But this is not true at all. True, in the sense that girls feel happy when we receive gifts unexpectedly, but that won't last for a lifetime - it's more of the LITTLE things you do for us that make it unforgettable.

This one's not only applicable to boyfriends, it also applies to friends and fathers out there. I can never forget the day my dad bought me my favorite Keroppi stuff toy without asking him to buy me one. I could also remember the day when I was only making side comments about him treating my mom and I for a drink at Starbucks. I thought he was kidding when he said that he would but then he did treat us ☺ I didn't care if my smile was reaching the tip of my ears, it made me so happy.

Now, for the lovers or suitors out there.

Did you know that a simple hug when we're feeling down is all that we needed from you? It would make us feel secure, knowing that you'll always be there for us no matter what.

A hug, for me, makes a huge difference. It means more than a kiss. A hug makes you feel as though you're home and that no one can hurt you. Even a simple text saying that you miss us means the world to us. I'm not saying that these are applicable to all the girls out there. You must also know her likes and dislikes. Each girl is attractively UNIQUE. 

Treat your girl with RESPECT, CARE and LOVE and you will see that she will treat you MORE than that. If opening the door for her or carrying her heavy nursing books makes you think it will make her happy, then a little muscle action won't hurt, will it? Think of it as a way of showing your love for her, without spending a dime. Most guys think of us as materialistic, but NO, this is not true, it's the little things that make our heart beat faster and slower at the same time. It's the little things that take up most of the spaces in our hearts and in our minds. It's what we treasure the most. ♥

Here's a pic I got from the web about the 31 things to make us smile :)